Quick answer
Texas does not use the word custody in its statutes. It splits the question into conservatorship (who makes decisions and holds parental rights) and possession and access (when the child is with each parent). Texas law presumes that both parents should be named joint managing conservators, and the best interest of the child is always the court's primary consideration.
The vocabulary matters
Texas generally uses conservatorship for what people call custody, and possession and access for what people call visitation. Getting the terms straight makes court paperwork much easier to read.
- Joint managing conservators — both parents share rights and duties. This does not mean equal time.
- Sole managing conservator — one parent holds the significant decision-making rights, such as the primary right to decide the child's residence.
- Possessory conservator — the other parent, who has rights to possession and access under a schedule.
The starting presumption
Texas law presumes that appointing both parents as joint managing conservators is in the child's best interest. That presumption can be rebutted — for example, by a history of family violence, which Texas treats as a bar to joint managing conservatorship in defined circumstances.
Separately, there is a presumption that a parent, rather than a non-parent, should be appointed managing conservator.
Best interest is the standard
The best interest of the child is always the primary consideration in deciding conservatorship, possession and access. Texas courts weigh the child's needs, each parent's ability to meet them, stability, the parents' plans for the child, and any history of violence, abuse or neglect. Texas courts have long used a list of factors from *Holley v. Adams* as a guide, and the Family Code adds specific factors, including family violence.
Possession schedules
Texas has a standard possession order written into the Family Code. It is the schedule courts apply by default for a child three years or older, when it is workable and in the child's best interest. It sets out weekends, midweek periods, holidays and extended summer possession, with different terms depending on whether the parents live within 100 miles of each other.
Parents can agree to something different. An agreed parenting plan that a court approves is common and generally holds up better than a schedule imposed after a fight.
Can a child choose which parent to live with?
Not on their own. In Texas, when a child is 12 or older, the court must interview the child in chambers about the child's wishes as to conservatorship if a party applies for it. The judge hears the child; the judge still decides. There is no age at which a child's preference controls the outcome.
Changing an order later
Court orders about conservatorship and possession can be modified, but not simply because a parent changed their mind. A modification generally requires showing a material and substantial change in circumstances, and that the change is in the child's best interest.
When you may want an attorney
Uncomplicated agreed parenting plans are sometimes handled without counsel. The situations where legal help usually matters: one parent wants to move away with the child, there are allegations of violence, abuse or substance use, one parent is denying possession, an out-of-state or interstate order is involved, or the other parent has already hired a lawyer.
Frequently asked questions
At what age can a child choose which parent to live with in Texas?
There is no such age. When a child is 12 or older, a judge must interview the child in chambers about their wishes if a party requests it, but the judge decides based on the child's best interest.
Does joint managing conservatorship mean equal time in Texas?
No. Joint managing conservatorship is about sharing parental rights and duties. Time with the child is set by the possession order, which is frequently not a 50/50 split.
Can a Texas custody order be changed?
Yes, through a modification suit. It generally requires showing that circumstances have materially and substantially changed and that the change would be in the child's best interest.
Sources & further reading
- Texas Family Code, Chapter 153 — Conservatorship, Possession and Access — Texas Legislature (Tex. Fam. Code ch. 153). Accessed September 9, 2026
- Texas Family Code, Chapter 6 — Suit for Dissolution of Marriage — Texas Legislature (Tex. Fam. Code ch. 6). Accessed September 9, 2026
- Texas Judicial Branch — Court Directory — Texas Judicial Branch. Accessed September 9, 2026
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